No dating for one year
All of a sudden, both of you are like, whoa, this is clearly not a sustainable speed.
Rather than pulling over and having an honest discussion, the guy tosses you out of the car and speeds off. YOU DROVE ME HERE, ASSH*LE.”Then you feel sh*tty about yourself and are confronted with the dilemma of what to do when (not if, but when) he slowly turns around to see if you’re still waiting there.
When someone is inconsistent, it means he or she either doesn’t know what he or she wants, or he or she does know what he or she wants and doesn’t know how to communicate that to you.We’re at a point where dating has become a very loose term. It could mean you’re going out for meals in public, or you could just be two Millennials, f*cking and texting. So, what do you do when you want sex, but you don’t want feelings?If I’ve learned anything about casual sex, it’s that no one really knows what it means. My conflict throughout the past few years has been trying to figure out how to find the balance of being single and independent (basically just living my life, according to Queen Bey), while not reducing myself to just a “booty call.”While I know many women who are the ones who do the booty calling, it was not for me.We’d have sex, we’d get closer, he’d disappear, I’d get confused, he’d come back, I’d let it go and repeat.This persisted until I realized the only thing consistent about these guys was their inconsistency.
If I have sex with someone to whom I have absolutely no emotional connection, I’m kind of just phoning it in. I’d honestly just rather watch Netflix by myself than fake an orgasm with some random guy from Tinder.